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Wednesday, November 08, 2006,1:26 PM

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I'm feelin rather upset for dis really good fren of mine. She's dis really sweet lovin gf who really cares so much for her bf, but for some reason they have been quarrellin pretty often lately. Caught up wit her on msn las weekend n she told me that she broke up wit her bf. I was totally taken aback. Coz she's one girl i know who will still hang on to her r/s wit her bf regardless of what. I know she really loves him. But. She juz had to call it off. Reason? Unexplained. At least not yet. She mentioned in her blog tt she wish for her frens to understand coz at the very moment she really dun feel like talkin abt it. Well girl its alrite, juz take ya time :D

Many tots ran thru my mind wen i tink abt being in a r/s. There are so many pros and cons, so many ups and downs. Sometimes its the most blessful thing tt eva happened in ya life and sometimes it can be the most dreadful thing. Being in a r/s is more den that. Commitment, Trust, Care, Concern, Patience, Understanding, Responsiblity, Communciation....etc. I dunno how our parents live it up to that, all i know is that the modern generation are nt exactly doin a great job wen it comes to r/s, being commitment to one another and all.

To some pple, love is all about feelins rather den commitment. Feelins comes and go, thats how crushes came abt. But lets juz say, ur in a r/s and u realised that u kinda had fond feelins for dis other person. Before u go ahead with anytink, stop and ask yaself y and do u really wanna risk ur probably long term r/s juz for dis new fantasy of urs? What are the risks involve and wat cld be the consequences to every thing u decide to do? Coz sometimes u may think that its harmless to go ahead with watever decision u made but the consequences might turn out to be sometink really drastic which ur not able to handle at all and for that it might probably cause u to regret for the rest of ur life.

So pple, plz rmb to tink twice before u plunge down into any decision u made.